PART 4 – That Evening, Nigel Asked His Ex-Wife to Make Their Son Apologize, Forcing Becca to Choose Between Keeping Peace and Protecting Him

By the time Becca and Dustin arrived home, the sky had darkened to a deep slate blue. The stuffed fox sat buckled into the passenger seat beside Dustin's backpack, and the photograph from the fair had already been saved twice on Becca's phone because her son insisted she make sure it could not disappear.

Inside the house, the ordinary Sunday evening routine gradually returned. Becca reheated leftover soup, Dustin changed into his pajamas, and the pumpkin costumes were draped over the backs of the dining chairs to air out before being put away. The kitchen smelled faintly of cinnamon and the soap Becca had used to clean the cupcake trays.

Dustin talked about the ring-toss game while he ate. He described the exact moment the winning ring landed around the bottle, the boy who had cheered for him, and the teacher who had promised to display the class photographs in the hallway. He did not mention Annabelle again.

Becca listened, asking questions when he paused and smiling at the details he considered important. She wanted him to remember the fair as a day when he had won a prize, presented his work, and worn a ridiculous costume with his mother. She did not want the sharp exchange outside the gym to become the only memory that survived.

After dinner, Dustin carried his stuffed fox upstairs and brushed his teeth. Becca heard him moving around in his bedroom, followed by the soft thump of a book landing on his mattress. When she checked on him, he was arranging the fox beside his pillow.

“Are you going to sleep with that thing now?” she asked.

“It's a prize. I have to look after it.”

“Of course. I wouldn't want it to feel neglected.”

He smiled, but his expression soon became thoughtful.

“Mom, when Dad comes to get me next weekend, will Annabelle be there?”

Becca sat on the edge of his bed.

“I don't know yet, sweetheart.”

“What if she says something again?”

The question was quiet. Dustin was not crying, and he did not look frightened in the way a child might after a nightmare. He simply wanted to know what would happen if the adults failed to keep their promises again.

Becca smoothed the blanket near his knee.

“If somebody says something unkind, you can tell your dad how it makes you feel. You can also tell me. You don't have to argue with anyone, and you don't have to make the situation better for the adults.”

“But what if Dad laughs?”

Becca paused.

She wanted to reassure him that Nigel would not repeat the mistake. Yet she had made that promise in her own mind before, and the afternoon had shown her how little good intentions mattered when they were not followed by action.

“If he does something that hurts you, you can tell him. And I will talk to him, too. It isn't your job to make sure the grown-ups behave properly.”

Dustin considered this answer, then nodded.

“Okay.”

She kissed his forehead and turned off the bedside lamp. As she reached the door, he called her back.

“Mom?”

“Yes?”

“I'm glad we wore the same costumes.”

Becca smiled in the darkness.

“So am I.”

She left his door slightly open and went downstairs.

For a few minutes, she stood in the kitchen, looking at the two costumes. The crooked green stems and uneven seams reminded her of the evening they had spent laughing over chocolate chips and frosting. Those were the memories she wanted to protect, not because every day had to be happy, but because a child's joy should not depend on whether an adult could resist making a cruel remark.

Her phone rang at 8:47 p.m.

Nigel's name appeared on the screen.

Becca considered letting it go to voicemail. She had already spoken to him twice that day, and she could imagine the conversation beginning with an explanation of how uncomfortable the fair had been for him and Annabelle.

Still, he was Dustin's father. If he was finally ready to discuss what had happened, she needed to hear him out.

She answered.

“Hello?”

“Hey,” Nigel said. His voice sounded tired. “Is Dustin asleep?”

“Yes. What's going on?”

A pause followed. Becca heard the faint sound of a car passing on his end of the call, then a door closing.

“Annabelle cried on the way home.”

Becca closed her eyes briefly.

She had expected this to be about the slideshow. She had expected Nigel to ask whether she had known what Dustin planned to say or whether she had encouraged him to make the presentation.

She had not expected him to begin by telling her how Annabelle had felt.

“I'm sorry she's upset,” Becca replied. “But Dustin was upset, too.”

“She thinks he deliberately embarrassed her in front of everyone.”

“He showed photographs of the work we did. He thanked her for buying decorations. He didn't call her names or make fun of her.”

“He knew people would understand what he meant.”

“Of course they understood that he was proud of his mother. That's what he was trying to say.”

Nigel sighed.

“Becca, you have to see how it looked. Everyone was watching her. She felt like the whole school was judging her.”

Becca walked to the window and looked out at the dark street. A porch light flickered across the road, illuminating a patch of wet pavement. She thought about the moment Annabelle had insulted her costume, Nigel's immediate laughter, and Dustin's serious face as he stood beside the cupcake table.

“Did you consider how it looked when you laughed at Annabelle's comment about me?” she asked.

“That wasn't the same thing.”

“Why not?”

“Because it was a joke.”

“According to whom?”

Nigel did not answer.

Becca rested one hand on the windowsill.

“You keep using the word joke as though it automatically makes the person being mocked responsible for accepting it. Dustin heard her insult me. He watched you laugh. Then he watched you tell him off when he said it was mean. What do you think that taught him?”

“I didn't realize he was taking it so seriously.”

“He came home and asked whether I thought my clothes were ugly. He's ten, Nigel. He shouldn't be worrying about his mother's appearance because your girlfriend has decided to make it a topic of conversation.”

“I know he's ten.”

“Then please start treating his feelings as something worth listening to.”

The silence stretched between them.

Becca could hear Nigel breathing through the phone. She imagined him sitting in his living room, perhaps with Annabelle nearby, trying to work out how the afternoon had become so complicated. She knew he disliked conflict. During their marriage, he had often tried to smooth over disagreements by making light of them, hoping that if nobody spoke too directly about a problem, it would eventually disappear.

That approach had sometimes been merely irritating. Now their son was old enough to recognize what it cost.

Nigel spoke again.

“Could you ask Dustin to apologize to Annabelle? It might help everyone move forward.”

Becca straightened.

“No.”

The answer was immediate, and she felt no need to soften it.

“Becca, I'm asking you to help us put this behind us.”

“Then start by asking the person who made the hurtful comment to take responsibility for it. Dustin doesn't owe Annabelle an apology for telling the truth about something he was proud of.”

“He made her feel humiliated.”

“She felt uncomfortable because people saw what happened. That isn't the same as Dustin doing something wrong.”

Nigel's voice tightened.

“He was taking sides.”

“No, Nigel. He was recognizing his mother's work. He can love you and still be proud of me. He can appreciate something Annabelle contributed without pretending she did everything. None of those things require him to choose one family over another.”

Nigel exhaled sharply.

“You make it sound so simple.”

“Because the principle is simple. The situation is uncomfortable, but that doesn't mean the principle changes.”

She heard a faint movement on his end, followed by what sounded like a muffled question. Annabelle was probably nearby.

Nigel lowered his voice.

“She says she feels like she can't do anything right around you.”

Becca almost laughed, but there was no humor in it.

“I have never asked her to bake cupcakes, make costumes, or organize the decorations. I asked her not to insult me in front of Dustin. I asked you to make sure he didn't have to listen to it. Those are reasonable requests.”

“She thinks you're trying to turn him against her.”

“Then she should look at what he actually did. He thanked her. He showed our work. He didn't ask anyone to dislike her.”

“He could have left that part out.”

“Why should he have to hide what happened just because the truth makes someone uncomfortable?”

Nigel fell silent again.

Becca could feel the conversation approaching a familiar dead end. She could spend another hour explaining why her son should not be forced to apologize, but she suspected Nigel was hoping that persistence would wear her down. If she agreed to ask Dustin for an apology, he could return to Annabelle with a solution, and everyone could pretend the matter had been settled.

Except Dustin would know.

He would know that when an adult felt embarrassed, he was expected to make the embarrassment disappear. He would learn that the safest way to keep the peace was to apologize even when he had done nothing wrong.

Becca would not teach him that lesson.

“No,” she repeated. “I'm not going to ask him to apologize.”

“Even if it helps?”

“Especially if it means teaching him that he should apologize for being proud of me.”

Nigel said nothing.

Becca continued, her voice quieter now.

“He asked me today whether he had made Annabelle angry. He was worried about her feelings after she hurt mine. He's trying to figure out how to keep everybody happy, and that's too much responsibility for a ten-year-old.”

“I didn't know he was that worried.”

“I told you he was upset last week.”

“I thought you meant he was annoyed by the comments.”

“He was trying to tell you something important. You didn't listen.”

The words seemed to reach him at last. His breathing changed, and when he spoke again, the defensiveness had weakened.

“I shouldn't have laughed at the costume joke.”

“No, you shouldn't have.”

“I didn't think about how it would affect him.”

“But he did. He was standing right there.”

Nigel released a long breath.

“All right.”

Becca waited.

“I'll talk to him,” he said. “I'll apologize.”

“Then listen to him when he tells you something bothers him. And make sure Annabelle understands that the comments have to stop.”

“I'll speak to her again.”

Becca looked at the costumes across the room. She wanted to believe that this conversation would finally change something, but she had heard promises before.

“Please make sure something actually changes, Nigel. Dustin deserves to feel comfortable at both of his homes.”

“I understand.”

They ended the call a few minutes later.

Becca placed the phone on the counter and remained standing beside it. The house was quiet. Upstairs, Dustin was asleep, his stuffed fox tucked beneath one arm, unaware that his parents had spent another evening discussing the consequences of something he had never wanted to become part of.

She hoped Nigel would apologize. She hoped he would understand that the problem was not the photographs or the applause, but the behavior that had made the presentation necessary in the first place.

Yet she knew that an apology would not be enough by itself.

The following weekend would bring another visit, another handover, and another opportunity for Nigel to show his son whether his promises meant anything. Becca could not control what happened at his house, and she could not force Annabelle to change her attitude.

She could, however, refuse to teach Dustin that keeping adults comfortable was more important than being honest.

Before going to bed, she picked up her phone and looked at the photograph from the fair. Dustin stood beside her in their matching pumpkin costumes, holding his stuffed fox and grinning at the camera. Her hair was untidy, the shoulder of her costume was crooked, and the green felt stem leaned toward one ear.

She saved the picture to a folder with his school photographs.

Then she turned off the kitchen light.

The photograph was only a small thing, but it captured something she wanted her son to remember: they had made something together, they had enjoyed it, and they had been proud of it before anyone else had an opinion.

Now Nigel had a chance to repair the damage his laughter had caused.

Becca would give him that chance.

But next weekend, she would be watching for the one thing that mattered more than any promise he could make over the telephone.

She would be watching to see whether he finally stood up for his son when it counted.


Click here to continue reading: PART 5: The Next Weekend, Dustin Returned to His Father’s House With One Question Nigel Could No Longer Afford to Ignore

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